This is an excerpt from a talk by AJ (apologies I appear to have lost the link to the talk and will post it as soon as I recall it but I do not want to delay publishing the quote as I want to use it as the basis for a discussion on anger:
“In the case of anger with men, there are some women spirits with you who are very very angry with men and this anger with men (they are with you) – they trigger your own anger with men and then they join in on the anger and the rage through you…So what G is getting is not just you anymore he’s getting you and a few spirits projecting the stuff….The key is there are always unresolved emotions within us until we are at one with God so there is some unresolved emotion within you and spirits can connect through the unresolved emotions in order to influence us and our behaviour. The thing we need to do is to own the emotion. When we choose to not own the emotion that’s when they can use us to damage others. So if for example you are angry with me, one of the things you often say to me is – I don’t feel that so much any more – but I can feel that strongly from you and G- gets a fair bit of it from you at times so he knows it’s there. You’re angry with men – you still have the desire to deny that emotion and its the desire to deny that emotion that allows the spirits to connect through you and project a heap of anger at a man who’s right next to you. Now if you were owning the underlying emotion, the grieving emotion about how men have treated you, you would never get into the anger with men which would never allow these to connect into this anger and then manipulate this anger. You don’t want to get to the rage, In your case you don’t need to get to the rage, the rage is what came after another emotion, grief – the terrible feelings of shame and guilt that you feel about your father molesting you. These are the emotions that you need to allow yourself to connect to. When you don’t allow yourself to connect to those emotions you will connect to this emotion (anger) and when you connect to that emotion in an irresponsible way – instead of owning it and bashing a bag or something what you are wanting to do in that particular instance is you want to harm a man. Many of you ladies who have been abused will feel this way – you want the man to pay for the damage that’s been done to you. You don’t care which man even, as long as a man pays. It doesn’t even matter which man and this is how many of these spirits feel too, particularly the female spirits who have passed who have been abused too. They just want a man to pay. They don’t care which man. They know G-‘s never done anything to cause you harm. They don’t care about that, he’s a man. So what they do, they connect through this feeling of anger – this desire for punishment towards a male that is still within you. They connect to that and heighten that emotion to show you in fact that have the emotion but often what we say is “But I don’t have that emotion”, but what the Law Of Attraction is showing you is that you have the emotion. So if you own that emotion and go deeper and express this rage and anger without there being a person involved at all, the power of the interaction for the spirit goes – it’s not powerful because you are not hammering a man anymore, you’re just hammering a bag which isn’t a man and they’re not satisfied with that so they’ll go and find another woman who will hammer a man instead.
The boys all their lives would have felt that emotion from you. What they have learnt to do is to detune themselves from your rage with men. (My boy N is in a rage all the time). Well he will be because the rage projected at him since he was conceived was unfair. The way he feels is a deep feeling of unfairness and both of your sons feel a deep feeling of unfairness when you get into a rage.”